Compassion is a two way street
If one’s actions are dependent on their original programming and reality paradigm, then can we have compassion for their fails and faults? They would have made better choices if they had foresight, or the knowledge (programming), that would have led to different outcomes. Should we fault others for not having the opportunity to know everything before hand or growing from their experiences? Should we fault you for the same? Compassion is a two way street.
Domino Anger
This can be equated to getting angry at the outcomes of a domino toppling. Each of our lives are a series of cause and effects that are still in their chain of reactions. The origins of someone’s behaviors is due to how these domino’s were setup to give them their present paradigm, circumstances and choices. We are living in one immense overlapping domino toppling that interweaves, interacts and is dependent on its origination. Given the full knowledge of the variables of your programing and the context, how your choice topples is guessable. But we do not know all the variables, we only see the evidence of them in outcomes. They wouldn’t have toppled wrong if they had been better setup from the very beginning. Do you have god like abilities?