Lesson 7: Warning, you might fail.

Some parents implement a system where children strive for a week of perfect behavior in exchange for a reward, like ice cream. However, this high expectation can set them up for failure and lead to feelings of hopelessness. Others may introduce a token economy for a time but then lose consistency, causing their child to regress. There are also those who expect rapid changes; while progress can happen quickly with effective strategies, it’s important to remember that gradual adjustments often yield better results.

Take a moment to observe how these methods work for you and your child. Approach this process like a scientist conducting experiments: be curious, adjust your approach, and refine the system as needed. By experimenting with different strategies and calibrations, you can develop a customized system that fosters positive behavior change and promotes growth in your child.